If you’re serious about having a sync licensing career you have to get good at writing songs that are NOT about romantic love.
Now, if you’ve been following me for a while, this is not news to you. You’ve probably heard me say it many times.
But, some artists still struggle with what to write besides love songs.
Well, I’m here to help you out with that. By the end of this article, I’ll give you 40 song themes that you can write that are not about romantic love.
But first, for those who are not as familiar…
Why are love songs a problem?
Isn’t love a common theme on TV and Ads? Then why is it so hard to place songs about love in sync?
Short answer? Because there are so many of them.
Most songs uploaded to DSPS are about romantic relationships. If you’re a songwriter you can attest to this – love is mostly what we write about. Music supervisors NEVER have a problem finding a good love song.
However, finding good hip hop / pop or R&B that is about more platonic relationships (like Best Friend by Doja Cat) is a LOT harder. This, therefore, presents a perfect opportunity for indie artists to enter into what is becoming a pretty crowded marketplace.
“Music supervisors always appreciate songs about love that are not romantic such as the love between siblings, family, friends, or of life in general”
—Thinking In Sync by Amanda K Thomas
If Not Love, Then What?
So, what will you write about if not romantic love?
To help you out with that, I’ve got a list of 40 songs themes that will work with sync that are NOT about love. Save this list and use it as inspiration during your next writing session.
“Advertising rarely uses songs about romance. But because non-romantic songs about friendships, family, and selfless love for others can be powerful and universal, brands and advertising agencies love them…and desperately need them!” syncsongwriter.com
40 Song Themes That are NOT About Love
- Friendship and camaraderie
- Courage and bravery
- Hope and optimism
- Inspiration and motivation
- Success and achievement
- Ambition and drive
- Home and nostalgia
- Childhood and innocence
- Family and bonds
- Unity and togetherness
- Teamwork and collaboration
- Challenges and obstacles
- Victory and triumph
- Celebration and jubilation
- Dreams and aspirations
- Social issues and activism
- Youth and coming of age
- Competition and rivalry
- Personal growth and transformation
- Quirkiness and eccentricity
- Health and wellness
- Community and togetherness
- Work and productivity
- Dreams and imagination
- Self-discovery
- Playful and mischievous
- Personal journeys and growth
- Life’s ups and downs
- Achieving dreams and goals
- Transformations and makeovers
- Human connections and bonds
- “Light”-related themes
- “Time” – related themes
- Songs about “Movement”
- Songs about “The Future”
- Rebellious / Rebellion / Against The Norm
- Songs About Desire (Not Love)
- Authenticity (Being Yourself)
- Songs about Culture / Being A Part of The Culture
- Songs about Being Present / The Current Moment
There you have it. I hope this helps inspire lots of pitchable songs.
Now, Go Forth and Conquer!
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Thank you Eric! Truly an inspiration fuse.
Thank you, Eric! I appreciate your insight concerning not writing romantic love songs as compared to writing about more general love themes.
I appreciate your view on everything sync! I would like to joint CTRL Camp and learn more about you.
Thanks, John
This is a good list to keep in mind. Thanks.